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Chapter 2 Relationships and Love People spend a fortune on research, books and other sources of information trying to discover the 'secret' to a successful and lasting marriage. Yet, every year statis

In this chapter, we delve into the challenges of modern marriages and the rising divorce rates that impact society. Despite numerous resources available, the quest for a lasting marriage often leads t

sight, but now they 'fight at first sight'. They quarrel everyday, bringing out the worst in each other. Type 2 - Mr Angel marrying Ms Ogress The husband is a 'prince charming', but the wife is an 'ug

This text discusses different types of marital relationships and how behaviors impact happiness. It categorizes couples into four types: fighting pairs, unmatchable types, abusive dynamics, and harmon

Superior Love through Superior Dhamma Because we are human beings, none of us are perfect. We all come with a baggage of deficiencies. We can cope with our own deficiencies but we cannot tolerate some

This text discusses the challenges of living with a partner and how the Dhamma provides guidance for a harmonious family life. It highlights the four virtues: truthfulness, self-control, endurance, an

their spiritual values. We need to educate them on the pros and cons as well as the benefits and dangers related to this subject, even if they call us old-fashioned and boring. We have to explain that

This text emphasizes the responsibilities of parents in guiding their children towards love, morality, and success. Parents must model virtuous behavior, educate, and provide emotional support while t

Unbreakable Bonds The bond between a husband and wife can be broken; but the bond between parents and children is unbreakable even through death. Even if we do not know who our parents are (due to cer

The bond between parents and children remains unbreakable even through death. While some may show their love occasionally, expressions of gratitude should be more frequent. The Lord Buddha exemplified

ERVICE I couldn't help thinking a lot, sometimes I kept thinking until midnight. One sleepless night, I decided to try meditating. I just sat and let time go by, waiting for myself to feel sleepy. I d

The narrative illustrates a woman's journey through meditation, revealing how it leads her to inner peace, emotional stability, and a better understanding of herself. Initially sleepless and contempla

CERVICE Testimony 5 Ms Pornprachern Boonsungnern, USA "When I love others, I give that person 100 percent, but in turn the hurt I get is equivalent to what I give. If I love myself, I give to myself 1

Ms. Pornprachern Boonsungnern, a 49-year-old singer from Nevada, USA, reflects on her life of suffering and joy. Losing her mother young, she lived in poverty but found hope through music. Winning a s

The Seven Bases of The Mind The Seven Bases of The Mind 2 1 Two fingers' width above navel 5 Two fingers'width 6above navel Base 1: At the nostrils (left for the lady, right for the gentleman) Base 2:

This text outlines the seven bases of the mind, which include specific physical locations on the body that correlate with mental states. Each base is associated with different aspects of consciousness

continuously. Repeat the mantra in your mind gently, allowing the mantra to slowly echo from the middle of the bright sun within your abdomen. Repeat the mantra 'Samma Arahang' repeatedly, which means

This text provides a meditation practice centered around the mantra 'Samma Arahang', focusing on purifying the mind to achieve self-love and universal kindness. The practice involves visualizing a bri

Interview the coldness. Those are our questions in life, and especially for me, Monica. Luang Phaw: Monica, let's put it this way. Due to my age I might need some assistants to help answer as my healt

This dialogue features a discussion between Monica and Luang Phaw. Monica inquires whether Luang Phaw believes in the concept of an economic church and the connections among major religions. Luang Pha

Rebirth & Incarnation Monica : What does the Buddhist script teach parents about how they should raise or have children? Luang Phaw: The Lord Buddha taught that parents should feed them not only with

This text discusses the essential teachings of Buddhism on parenting. It emphasizes that parents are responsible for providing not just food, but also moral and ethical guidance. Key principles includ

Buddhist View on Sex Luang Phaw: One thing you have to bear in mind is that before leading a life in priesthood, all Buddhist monks were once ordinary laypeople. But they consider the life of laypeopl

The Buddha's teachings emphasize that before becoming monks, individuals are ordinary laypeople burdened by life's responsibilities. Laypeople often pursue temporary pleasures, such as sensual gratifi

A Successful Marriage 52 other. For example, a relationship is compared with a bird in our hands. If we grasp it too tight, the bird will die and we will lose it forever. To keep it with us, we must l

The text discusses the delicate balance required in marriage, likening it to holding a bird; too tight, and it will die. It emphasizes the importance of care, sharing, and communication between spouse

How to Meditate? Monica your son? Five minutes, or ten minutes maybe? : I could probably sit for half an hour or maybe longer, I don't know. Just to keep this picture all the time? It's so hard for me

Meditation can be practiced in various ways, including visualizing calming images such as loved ones or serene locations. In a discussion between Monica and Luang Phaw, they explore personal images th

How to Meditate? Luang Phaw: You definitely can do it. Have you ever stood on the beach in front of this house and watched the sunrise or sunset? Monica : Yes, especially sunrise in the morning. Luang

In this dialogue, Luang Phaw guides Monica on how to meditate by visualizing a sunrise on the beach. He emphasizes the importance of focusing solely on the image without distractions. Monica acknowled

How to Meditate? Monica despite the pain and suffering, one can overcome fear totally. : But you know when you're really stressed and you have too much to do, like organizing the kids, and work and ev

Meditation can help overcome fear and stress despite life's challenges. Visualizing calming elements like the sun can aid focus. Many believe meditation is incompatible with daily life, but it can be

Basic Meditation Practice You can start meditating by sitting cross-legged, placing your right leg over your left leg and your right hand over your left hand. If you cannot sit in this position, you c

This text provides a guide for beginners to meditation, emphasizing the importance of posture, deep breathing, and relaxation. The practice begins with sitting comfortably, either cross-legged or on a

hope that you will find someone else to help you with the many things in life. There are some who get married because they expect that their spouse will treat them favorably in different ways; and at

This text discusses the misconceptions surrounding marriage and the impact of unrealistic expectations on relationships. Many enter marriage hoping their spouses will meet their needs continuously, wh

that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can

เนื้อหานี้สำรวจระดับความสวยงามของคนซึ่งยกย่องการมีศีลธรรมในความรับผิดชอบและกิจกรรมประจำวัน บทความยังเน้นถึงบทบาทสำคัญของผู้ให้คำปรึกษาในเรื่องการแต่งงาน ผู้ที่มีประสบการณ์สามารถช่วยแก้ไขปัญหาครอบครัวแ

words, it is the ability to have endurance for others' weaknesses. Once the couple is married and begins living together, there will be many responsibilities one must undertake for one's spouse and on

In family life, endurance and gentleness are crucial for managing responsibilities and conflicts. As couples live together, they must cultivate patience for each other's weaknesses and practice calmne